Okay, me and this girl from work went to an event over the weekend and it went good I thought. She said she had a good time after. We were going to stop for a drink or dinner, but it was too late so she said she would take a rain check and next time we will go somewhere closer and have more time. We had both hinted we had several of the same days off work this week, so I assumed she would want to do something this week. So I texted her asking how her day went, no response. Then if she was alright and she texted back. I then told her to let me know if she wanted to do dinner or something this week let me know. I thought she would, but hasn't yet. I waited awhile and texted her again asking how she was doing and no response even though it shows she's online.
So at this point I'm confused as I'm pretty sure she likes me, but I know she just got out of a relationship. For me its been quite a while and I may be out of practice (and I am somewhat quiet and reserved). Do you think I did anything wrong? Maybe I should have asked her out more direct, but still you would have thought she would have said something to my post. I don't want to seem needy so I don't want to bug her too much but maybe I have already? Any advice?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you need to back off.
I can tell you from my own experience, when things are that new with a guy, sometimes I will take a long time to text back. Not as a game, but because he just isn't a priority in my life yet. And the guys who have done the double text (like you describe above) are the ones I never see again. The ones who are patient, and receiving when I do have time to reply are the ones that I end up dating.
If you text her and get no response, leave it alone and don't text again. If you're friends on social media, don't go liking/commenting on all her stuff. If you see something new that she's posted a week or so later, just like it, or if you must comment, don't say anything you wouldn't say to someone who is just a friend. Let her come to you. If she's interested in you, she will. But if you push her to talk to you, you will only push her away.
Best of luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
tip: when texting put emojis :D 🍕🍕🍕
Dont bother her just do somthing to make the time pass. shell text when she has time.0