I have this. I get nervous approaching people but I can do that if needed. I have trouble keeping conversation, it's hard to relate to others with "normal" lives and I don't have much to be proud of so I run out of things to say and overthink everything.
im finished with school and college and unemployed, I have no friends and I'm not much of a drinker at bars. I don't know how I could pick up girls with limited social experience/activities. or find a place to meet girls when im always by myself and this might scare them. Online dating has been no help.
Usually guys meet girls at jobs, school, or out with friends at a bar or club, I don't have these situations as options so I'm clueless how I can start meeting anyone. Unless the grocery store is a great pick up place I'm screwed.
Most Helpful Girl
While it is important to have social experience, a job, etc. some women are just looking for a good guy. I think confidence is key and there are many ways to overcome social anxiety. You seem like a nice guy but you will need improved social skills in order to find someone. Also, in terms of location, it's true that you're going to need to get out more. You're not going to meet anyone if you just go to one place.2
Most Helpful Guy
you have to throw yourself into uncomfortable situations to overcome it1