Guy I'm seeing has a big race this weekend. I thought he'd want support and to see me since I last saw him a week ago. I gave suggestions like a pre-race dinner and some jokey ideas. He said "LOL only thing I want after is an ice bath and nap. But I LOVE your ideas." He also complimented me a lot more than usual. "You're so sweet, sexy, you make me so happy." I said, "Aw. Well are you up for some company relaxing before the race? Even if all you want to do is nap, I'm all for it. But I understand if you want to do your own thing." He said, "Thanks gorgeous, appreciate the offer and will thank you with foot rubs when I see you." I asked to make sure it's a def no for this weekend so I can make other other plans. He told me he's not feeling well and wants to rest for the race. I said, "Aw I didn't know you were still sick. You talked the last few days like things were just crazy busy." He said, "I thought I mentioned throat issues. Hasn't gotten better unfortunately. I'm unhappy about having to cancel my volunteer work" He had a sore throat a week ago. He's a big baby about being sick and is the type to talk about every discomfort so it's weird that all he talked about since Tues was craziness at work and some fun tidbits. I suggest getting together and he just says, "Thanks?" He only talked about being sick AFTER I asked more questions? And how is it that he had no problem doing crazy volunteer hours the past few days? And he can't see me at all because of a sore throat? Come on. Am I over - thinking this or is something amiss?
Does it sound like he's making up excuses not to see me? Or am I over thinking it?
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Hmm I am not certain. But give him the benefit of the doubt just this once.0
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