I've been seeing this guy for roughly 3-4 months. He's an amazing guy, and I couldn't have asked for a better boyfriend.
Unfortunately, my boyfriend is one of those guys that attracts a lot of attention, especially from girls. My boyfriend and I went to junior high together, and pretty much everyone had a crush on him.
The high school that he attended was pretty much the same scenario: a lot of girls like him. He's had about 10 girlfriends (not including me) thus far, he's had sexual relations with 5 girls, has gotten lap dances, has grinded before, kissed many girls, etc.
I've had relationships before, but I've never went further than kissing... I'm not entirely sure why, but I'm really jealous that he's experienced everything and I'm not going to be his first lap dance, his first time having sex, etc.
I'm also a little bit insecure that so many girls like him... there's always girls that like him, girls that try to flirt or even kiss him (he always rejects their advances and gives them some sort of warning), etc.
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He's chosen you and sounds like he is being faithful - if you start getting all insecure you will ruin the relationship. Be confident and hold your head high and just focus on making your relationship with him great without worrying about outsiders. He's with you because he thinks your great so keep being great.😁
Dont worry about him being more experienced. When you do have sex with him it will be his first time with you. First tine with someone new is always an exciting new experience. And because he is more experienced it means he will probably be more focused on you and making sure you enjoy it and he will have a better idea of how to do that.2