My guy has been getting email from ex he broke up with years ago. He could just ignore them, but he always reply. He tells her little details of his life. Sometimes things she doesn't even ask about. Should I be worried he hasn't mentioned he has a serious girlfriend?
Most Helpful Guy
This is not a drill. I repeat, this is not a drill. Code 5 alert has been issued, report to your stations at once. I repeat, we have an emergency!
You should be very much worried. Any man serious about his woman is going to tell some other woman that he is in a relationship. Now, from hereon out it's personal taste whether he should add if things are (WAYY) better than with the ex, to add salt to the wounds, but hey, not necessary. Why the hell would he tell about his other shit that she didn't even ask about?1
Most Helpful Girl
I would be concerned. Why is the ex talking to him in the first place? I realize sometimes people remain friends with ex's, but it sounds like this is someone when hasn't talked to in a while. So why let her back in his life now?
Generally, if you have no proof of anything foul going on, you should hope and trust in your boyfriend.
If it were me, I probably wouldn't tell them I was seeing anyone either. Not because I am trying to hide my relationship or get back with them. But just because I'm private and I don't want them knowing details of my life like that. I would be afraid they would try to talk to my boyfriend or girlfriend and mess things up. People can have really ulterior motives sometimes even though they may seem innocent.
If the conversation started getting flirty, I would then shut it down right away and let them know.0