Met this girl on tinder. We talked on the phone about two months ago. I asked her to meet up and she never responded. A few days ago she hit me up and we started texting. Later in the convo I said we should meet up and she never responded. What the hell? Part of me wants to tell her not to text me again. Should I ask her what's up with her behavior or just leave it alone.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe she's shy? Or worst case scenario a catfish. But it'd best to ask her why she won't meet up or why she's avoiding thay question.0
Most Helpful Guy
For the love of god, why are most Girls confusing Lol. the stories I could share of what girls do, or have done and call it mere friendship or not flaking such as your situation.
But Op, think of it like baseball. 3 strikes you're out. If she doesn't make plans with you at This point she isn't worth your time. Now some girls use text for attraction, so if what you were texting up till the point u asked her to hang out wasn't very smooth and interesting for her... she's already determined if you're merely a text Buddy, or someone she wants to haNg with. And it seEms the latter.
But I would either wait for her to initiate a hangout nex. While u go NC. Or ask once more if you want and if she flakes again thats strike 3 and shess out of there... as in lose her number fast. No need for this.0