I would go to places with my friend who is really attractive. However, guys say hi to her because she is physically pretty and gave her free passes to the door. My mom gets angry when I complain to her on why my men only have eyes for attractive women at first. I think my friend is cool and has great ideas for trip. I now I am not hot because guys ignore me or notice me. I talk to male classmates, but I do not care if they like or not. This scenario is so strange because most guys do not ogle at me, but at other ladies who are beautiful. This is the first man that ever looked at me, but I sort of felt uncomfortable. This random Hispanic guy who appears to be in his 30s was staring me hard, but he is with wife. When he was staring at me, I yelled at him to stop looking at me. I never had a guy that stare at me hard before that. Some guys have ignored me, but are respectful towards me. I laughed to myself when a group of people were saying how plain I looked. I know God thinks I am very beautiful. I do not want to date random guys because I do not their stances and stinky breaths. I would like to know how can I be grateful if men only stare or initially show attraction towards hot chicks.
Can I find love if I am not pretty?
What Guys Said 8
Look, there is a spectrum of beauty that runs from "not good looking" to "exquisitely beautiful". Everyone falls into that curve somewhere - including men.
So "not good looking" men can stare at "exquisitely beautiful" women... but will they ever attain those women? Likely... no.
So if you're not so good looking - eventually some not so good looking man will come along.1
Is your heart ready for love?0
dont go out with your pretty friend again! go with an uglier than you and you'll look like the pretty one!0
Do u have a big ass and big boobs0
The problem is your age. You're surrounded by a lot of women who are genetically pretty, and haven't fallen apart due to poor lifestyle choices yet.
By age 30, if you're plain looking but in reasonably good (not obsessively good, reasonably good) shape, with a flattering hair style and dress well, you'll be above average compared to most women, as the majority will be fat and fading at that part. For most of your life, how good you look is mostly about taking care of yourself.2
im srry but it just annoys me badly. when people won't even give you a chance because you don't have "the face". like learn to not care so much about facial appearances for once2
''I do not want to date random guys because I do not their stances and stinky breaths''
Can u explain this?1
What Girls Said 3
You still got ten years to ponder about this.1
I get called plain too, but I've been literally proposed to a few times, I think because I'm considered.. Umm.. very kind? Or maybe because I'm jus really awesomely Awesome to be around!! (Just kidding) my point is, is that if you're personality is considerate and lovable to someone , that person will automatically see you as very good looking, I'm certain0