Is this bad to date cuz people say it is
Most Helpful Guy
No we can't help who we fall in love with as long as you're both happy.
Age is just a number besides it's your private life and has sod all to do with anyone else4
Most Helpful Girl
1. An older spouse can soon become an old spouse needing cared for. When that happens, it's not uncommon for the younger spouse to move on, looking for the youth they've lost.
2. The older spouse dies, leaving behind a widow (er). If it's been a reasonable length of relationship, the surviving spouse may find it difficult to find a new partner as has happened to a woman I knew, now in her 60s (widow, not especially well-off - and lonely).
3. I may be cynical, but the wallet size of some of the above could make it appealing to the younger spouse to live in marriage for a goodly number of years then take the older spouse to the cleaners financially. Cynical, moi0