I'm going out with a guy for the third time. I'm the one who asked him out. I made a reservation in a restaurant and my friend was pissed and she called me stupid. She says he is the guy and he should pay. I don't like it when guys pay for me. Would I look weird if I pay? and what do you guys think about that.
I like it when girls offer to split the bill, it shows me that they don't have the intention to exploit me, which gives me the freedom to insist that I get the bill, so its nice she offers, but I am a true believer in expressing my appreciation in having her as company for the evening and insisting to get the bill, but an offer should at least be mentioned to split and allow the guy to either accept or refuse, x
I grew up in a very traditional environment. I'll always try to pay for us both, if she insists in paying for herself then go for it I'm not going to fight her, but whatever. I don't care about those details, I'd rather just focus on getting to know her and having a good time!!
You can pay for the meal. It would only be awkward if you make it awkward. I would find that sexy if a woman payed for my meal. It shows financial security as most females couldn't afford my meals.(I am a big guy)