Came back from college this summer and started talking to a guy from my highschool. We never hungout in high school but through a mutual friend we started hanging out all summer. We spent all summer together and what felt like a relationship but was too soon to be exclusive once summer ended. It was the start of his first year at a four year so i figured it would not be smart to be in a relationhsip until we saw how things went once school started. We talk everyday but do not bring up the idea of a relationship. I hate even thinking of havibg to ask the what are we question and i try to avoid it at all costs bc it sound so clingy. But after talking since July, I feel asking in a casual way is necessary and i deserve to know. It seems like that question has become somthing that people freak out over and i just want to ask casually but dont know how?
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It is the wrong question to ask. What you want to ask is, "are you dating others at school? Do you want me to date others while you are away? Do you think we are at a point where she should promise exclusivity to each other?" What you call the relationship is not important. What agreements and expectations you have is very important.0