I'm 17 years old, objectively I'm not ugly, in good shape. My character is not easy but not very difficult. I'm temperamental. The problem is that I haven't got a boyfriend. All my friends have and I feel like something wrong with me. I had my first boyfriend 2 years ago. But I was only 15 and 2 years is a long time. But I want boyfriend tot because all my friends have and I not. I want to have a boyfriend cause I just want to feel smb love, care and give it too. Just want kiss... I don't understand why I can't find a person for relationships. Is there something wrong with me?
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There's probably not anything really wrong with you, you mentioned that your character is not easy but not difficult... Can you elaborate on this a bit? I have a hunch that this is playing a role in your situation, the question is what can you do to make it easier for guys to be attracted to your personality/character?
The fact that you had a boyfriend when you were 15 puts you ahead of the game, I was 17 when I had my first girlfriend and I know people who were out of high school before they were in their first relationship. So don't feel too bad :-)
Also, you say that you want a boyfriend because all your friends do... You also said that you want a boyfriend because you want to feel and give love and care. This second part should be the primary reason, not just to keep up with your friends. That part shouldn't be as important (though I do understand where you're coming from)
Getting back to the character/personality/temperament part though... What exactly do you think MIGHT be something here that guys might be afraid of, nervous about, or intimidated by?0