Meeting this guy online for coffee date and it's our first meeting, how long should it last? I'm thinking about an hour? Thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
Depends how you hit it off... If you're both having a good time, it could turn into 3 hours at the coffee shop followed by "Hey wanna walk over to the museum?" or "Hey wanna go get some lunch?"
Or if it's not quite what you were hoping for and there doesn't seem to be that magic chemistry, you (or he) might remember that your friend had called and asked if you could drive them to work in half an hour since their car broke down, so you gotta run (but it was nice meeting you, blah blah blah)
Or of course if one of you has an appointment or plans and only has a limited amount of time, that could impact the amount of time available...0
Most Helpful Girl
I could stay at the coffee shop for hours, just give me a good book or some worksheet to do and I'll stay at the coffee shop for an entire afternoon tbh.
Now with the first date just make it as long as you feel you need to get to know the most important info about him. Have a nice conversation with a tasty cup of coffee or hot chocolate and during that convo, try l make up your mind about whether or not you wanna meet that person again. If I was you I would calculate anywhere between 1-3 hours really.0