We have been together for 2 years and he has been very faithful. He doesn't text or openly make conversation with other girls. He swears to me constantly that he doesn't fantasize over other girls. If he's truly loyal, is that possible.
I'm loyal and when I masturbate I usually masturbate picturing other women, it doesn't mean I am not attracted to my girlfriend or that I have desires to cheat, it just gets me off. Couples are allowed to find other people attractive, it doesn't mean the person is going to cheat.
Yes it is possible. He obviously values loyalty a great deal. He seems to love you , and tries to reassure you that you are the only girl for him, because he wants you to feel emotionally safe with him.
When i love a girl, i don't need to fantasize about other girls. Especially if my girl has all the things i like, why would i fantasize about other girls if i had a girl like that who also likes me as well? Nothing more amazing than that.
It's too much. It feels like he is bullshitting you. Saying that he doesn't fantasize about you is nice, but we all do it from time to time. We all agree that it's ok too. It's also normal to be talking to other women.
I hope he is bullshitting you because if not, something weird is going on.