He is my first boyfriend and he is very sweet and attentive but right now I feel like our relationship is based more in sex than in anything.
We talk everyday but now most of the time he just wants sexting. We don't have so many dates and usually we just go to his house and we have sex.
Is like he only thinks about sex and I don't know if he just want me for that.
He is 20 years old.
Most Helpful Guy
sounds like he feels like sex is what a relationship is, it appears that he doesn't realize that a true relationship involves far more than sexual activity.
I don't think the relationship is "normal" in terms of a true relationship but I do think that a lot of people practice relationships like this so it's not out of the norm0
Most Helpful Girl
If sex is the only thing you do when you see each other then that honestly sounds like less of a relationship, and more of a friends with benefits type of situation. In relationship, couples can still have frequent sex but typically they do other things together too. They spend time together talking, hanging out, and engaging in conversation. They may go out on dates but you don't have to spend money. It's more about just spending genuine time together. I can't say for sure if your relationship is "normal" or not since that really depends on the individual couple but, maybe that is something to think about for you.0