I'm just wondering, as I know a lot of guys and girls who sext with other people who are not their boyfriends or girlfriends. I realize it's more of a norm these days actually.
Personally, I would break up with a guy if I found out he was talking to another girl everyday, and then periodically sexting with her.
My best friend just found out that her boyfriend who lives with her has been texting another girl every day since they met 7 months ago. He sends her nudes, and she'll send him some photos of her in lingerie or bikinis. They also text sex (lol) or "sexting" a few times. My best friend called the girl up and confronted her and she said she had no idea he had a girlfriend, they met a few months ago at a party, and his friends were there too, and even his friends never mentioned my best friend. They made out at the party and his friends never said anything. Him and my bestfriend have been living together for a year.
Anyway he blocked the girl and deleted her number and removed her from social media so now my best friend forgives him. To me, this is cheating, I would have kicked him out of my apartment (he's living in HER apartment).
Am I being too extreme/harsh though? Would you forgive your boyfriend or GF?
It depends on what you have talked about and set up as boundaries. If they are being sneaky about it and doing it behind your back, then yes, that is dirty and they themselves clearly know they are doing something they shouldn't. If you have talked about it and agreed that sexting with others is cool, then by all means let them do it. These are things couples should talk about openly before making too many decisions.
Personally, I would be totally fine with it, but they would know that much before they started doing it.
Yeah... it's cheating, and there's no ifs or buts about it. It's as if you're on a diet, and end up excusing eating an entire bag of potato chips on Friday evening, because well... it was Friday evening.
It is cheating. I would not tolerate this in my relationship. Once I catch this if it happened to me the relationship would be over. There will be no sorry/please forgive me. I will never accept this disobedience in any form.
It is absolutely cheating, I can't believe she's still with him. Eventually her distrust for him will ruin the relationship, or he will end it because he will realize he has no boundaries and can't stay committed. It's only a matter of time, really.
When you're in a committed relationship, and he's sexting someone else, he's not only paying attention to his girlfriend. his looking at other girls and he only stopped because he was caught but he had no intention in avoiding this head on. This boy does not want this relationship as much as he should. If i knew my boyfriend wasn't FULLY committed like he promised to be i would break up. sorry but in that situation its all or nothing. then again when you love someone you don't think rationally
It's the fact that he'd never told her for 7 months, and her forgiving her made me angered. He's probably sexting another girl rn :/
YES it is totally cheating. I think if it would hurt your partner, it's cheating.
Cheating isn't always about sex, kissing or touching. If you sext anyone else other than your SO then.. you are already there.
If someone is sexting and sending nudes to some other girl , then they have a potential to cheat... given half the chance. I would dump hiss ass and find a guy who had me on his mind when he is horny...