I've known this guy for like a month now and we have hung out three times. We text pretty frequently. He has hinted about me spending the night but I don't know what we really are yet, would it be too soon? I'm not really looking to have sex with him either (at least not yet!) so I don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Guy
Are you an adult? Then whenever you feel comfortable doing that is the best answer. Not all guys are the same and they won't all react the same way. Not going home with one guy could be just as bad as going home with another. Don't make a decision like this based on speculations on how he might react instead decide using something a little more concrete like how you feel about the situation.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Not yet. Realistically, one month is not enough time to really know a guy or know him well enough to trust being vulnerable, letting your guard down, and sleeping at his home. You'd be surprised how f*cked up some guys are before you really get to the core of them. Case and point: One of the most kind, handsome gentlemen at my high school is now a registered sex offender for hazing a freshman and joining 2 other guys in sticking their fingers up his butt. He's gorgeous, friendly, and has all the right moves. I remember seeing him with a very pretty girl and wondering if she has any clue. Make smart choices.0