I make more money than him, dont live together. together over a year. pretty serious. He buys me little things here and there.
x'mas is coming, I often treat myself to little things.
So i bought myself a $2k bag... should I tell him?
guys would you feel bad, would you have rather you buy me a bag (but a cheaper version bag... i probably won't want it because there is only a few top brand name i carry) he has mentioned he wants to buy me bags and shoes, but the stuff i like he can't afford, so i am buying it myself.
Since it is your money and not married I don't see it as necessary to bother telling him. At least you can buy yourself nice things like that and don't expect him to go all out like that when you make more. I need to find someone like you for a change😊
You needn't tell him. It's your money and you can buy your own bling. Once you're married or living together and sharing resources his expectations may change. Be sure he understands you'll control your own money if that's the way you will want it.