I have at least five guys after me, not in love, but constantly calling etc. I barely leave home and don't socialise a lot, so I find it surprising that I have so many guys after me.
do other people in their 30s experience that? I've always thought it'd be the opposite. when i was younger (18-20) I had NO guys at all interested in me, sometimes during several years...
To be honest, this is really surprising. i've had more than 15 guys after me this year... honestly I can' remember (surely half at least were expecting sex). COmparing my experience of being single now than with my experience ten years ago, I'm really amazed of how things became so different. Yes, my personality changed, I'm now more outgoing and confident, looks have improved in some ways but worsened in others (I don't have that cute face anymore...).
Has anyone experienced anything similar? Maybe guys think I'll be an easy lay because I'm open and relaxed and don't want to have children? Maybe I've aged better than other women my age?
Anybody else with similar experiences?
(Am I going to have zero guys again in ten years? :P)
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I find this too! I know when I was in high school, no guys wanted me. Then in college I had a little bit of interest, but not much. Now that I am 26 I have way more guys into me.
I think as we get older, our standards become more realistic. People aren't chasing after only the super hot girls and guys. They see that other qualities are just as important, such as a stable job, kind demeanor, faithful, etc...
I think too, people as they get older have a better sense of themselves. So it makes it easier to find people who are more compatible. People are also looking to settle down more in their 30's than in their 20's so that also makes a huge difference.
I'm online dating now, and there are lots of guys on there looking to settle down. When a girl has a stable job, is kind and seems to have her priorities straight she becomes more of a catch to them.1