The age gap is 20 years.
What do you guys think of that?
Is it something that shouldn't been mentioned at all?
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I imagine this would be something that wouldn't phase older guys at all, but would probably cause younger guys to panic. If you have only been dating older men previously, it means there are certain things you are looking for, and it would also mean there would be certain things that you have become accustomed to. Some of which younger guys may struggle with.
If what you are looking for has changed, they may be a better fit, but there will often be a seed of doubt in their mind. Younger guys are often not as confident as they present, and are often more threatened by other concepts than they let on, so even a guy who seems to be all alpha male not-giving-a-fuck can feel threatened by that and can shy away.
If a guy really likes you though, he will be able to work through those issues. A confident guy that is really into a girl will be sure that they will be what she needs, and will not have a problem with her past. In general, fear of a girls past is a sign of insecurity. And a lot of insecurity can be overcome if a girl seems worth it.1