The past few months my boyfriend has been on his phone a lot more than usual. I see him giggling and excited texting someone constantly. We've been together for 11 months and living together for 9 months and this started happening 3 months ago. I decided to snoop through his phone about a month ago because of his suspicious behaviour and I found out he is texting a girl he met a few months ago almost every single day.
I haven't told him because I'm trying to figure out if he's cheating or not. Every few days when he's in the shower I read their text messages. She doesn't know about me and he tells her he lives all by himself. It doesn't sound like they hang out and she tells him she went through a bad breakup and wants to be friends for now, and he told her he also went through a bad breakup and he also just wants to be single for now and he's okay with them just being friends. So, okay they say they're just friends, so why doesn't he just tell her about me? They send each other photos and he tells her she's very beautiful. He even told her a few times he thinks about her when he masturbates (very inappropriate).
What could his reasons be? Does he have feelings for her? Does he like her? Is he NOT serious about me? How could he say he's still heartbroken because of his ex-gf? He's never told me that. They've been broken up since June 2014.
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He is waiting to break up with you and move out and then he has his next victim already waiting in the wings. This is cheating. If you want to bring it to a conclusion, tell him that the other girl found out about you and she contacted you. He will then contact her to ask what is happening and probably tell her about you because he will assume that she already knows.
Or tell him that you know about her. He will claim that they are just friends. You reply that if they are just friends, he can invite her to meet you two for dinner somewhere.1