Look at it this way... it's her life.
She has to balance what she wants out of life, with what she wants out of your relationship.
The sorority can help her in ways not joining one never could.
She obviously feels your relationship is strong enough to withstand the "time strain"
and honestly.. if she is going to cheat on you.. being in a sorority won't be the reason.. in or out, if it is going to happen, it's going to happen.
You have to look at the big picture.. Do you:
1: Want to be part of her bigger better after school life?
2: Do you want to hold her back, and cause resentment to fester?
3: Do you want to break up over this?
Cause ultimately, those are your choices.
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Joining a sorority was one of the most fulfilling experiences I had while in college. It might strain your time together, it did take ti me from me and my partner, but it was something I wanted to do and he respected that. Two years later, we're still going strong 😊
It depends on the kind of sorority she joins. Not all of them party.
It really depends. I highly suggest you don't try to keep the relationship. College is probably the worst influence on a serious relationship. Peer pressure is massive there especially in sororities/frats. It's the perfect place for people explore their sexuality.
You can always try to be an exception but I have never heard of even one serious relationship surviving it without permanent damage.
Definitely communicate like crazy man. Sororities lol.. Sometimes they are so loyal and committed to their sorority it'd like they might as well be lesbian.
I have a friend, she graduated two years ago but STILL visits and hangs out there all the time. Lol
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I did the whole greek life and good lord the things girls have to do at my school. God bless bro and I hope all goes well, because it mostly isn't good.
why don't you just tell her that shit? also, god help you... that rush week shit will be annoying as fuck!
Joining a sorority was one of the best things I've done for myself.
Yes bro break up with her lol. Sloots gon sloot.
She's going to take soooo much frat dick
if she's white yes.
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