I know a lot of girls including my siser who rush sororities for good reason. They don't party all the time and actually want to help others with phylathropy. But I also know a lot of girls who completely changed upon rushing (Going out every night, fake friendships rubbing off on their personality, and countless one night stands with frat guys). I know they're extremely time consuming and as a pre med student I feel that would eliminate all extra time she was using on me. she's a very good girl and I really love her, but I dont know how to handle the situation. Help!
Joining a sorority was one of the most fulfilling experiences I had while in college. It might strain your time together, it did take ti me from me and my partner, but it was something I wanted to do and he respected that. Two years later, we're still going strong 😊
It really depends. I highly suggest you don't try to keep the relationship. College is probably the worst influence on a serious relationship. Peer pressure is massive there especially in sororities/frats. It's the perfect place for people explore their sexuality.
You can always try to be an exception but I have never heard of even one serious relationship surviving it without permanent damage.