My boyfriend has this female coworker that recently added him on facebook/instagram and snapchat (which I could care less and I'm happy he has female friends) but i'm starting to get weird feelings about it. She constantly snapchats him, and she will also message him on social media a lot. Whenever she snaps him he will turn away from me to look at it, same with the messages. It's just weird and I don't want to being that crazy girlfriend who doesn't trust him, but I just get this weird feeling about it. Advice on what to do?
Most Helpful Guy
You have a right to be concerned, I would voice them to him also, because he is giving her more attention than he gives you when he needs to choose who gets it, so really, he's taking you for granted and it sounds like its in a disrespectful manner, x1
Most Helpful Girl
Ahhh that womanly instinct is ringing off. It's one thing to have female friends, and being ok with it, but don't be suckered. If it walks, talks, and looks like a duck chances are it isn't no chicken (lol) If it was just harmless things he would have NO problem allowing to see, nor would he "shield" the view. I always have a theory women friends before you met, are more than likely that, friends. Women friends after you met are usually ones you might want to question. Now can a guy make a new friend while with you, absolutely, but he wouldn't act like he is. It's up to you to decide, but it's your women instinct snitching on him. Something to think about sadly.2