Does liking two people at once make you a player?
Question says it all, but does liking two people at once (when you aren't dating them) make you a player?
And you are?
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Updates: Most Helpful Guy
Not at all. Playing with both at the same time, makes you a player. Choose one, don't play with the emotions of both.
As tempting as being a player sounds, it's not as good as it looks.
Most Helpful Girl
oh no not at all. u aren't actually acting upon your feelings or making commitments so there's no issue. you've just caught feelings for 2 guys. it'll pass over eventually.
What Guys Said 12
It's only considered a "player" when you're actually involved with those two people, simply crushing on them is innocent.
No. You're only a player when you're cheating one from behind.
Eg, getting into a relationship because he wants to have sex with the girl ultimately, and then get out from it, asking a girl out making a move while you're in an exclusive monogamous dating/marriage.
No, fucking two people without either of them knowing about the other would make you a player.
If you keep it a secret yes if you're open and honest and you tell both of them you're seeing other people then No.
No, acting on both would though
it makes you indecisive lol
Depends as whether you are acting on it or not.
NO, not at all.
Dating them both with them knowing about it makes someone a player
Naw, dating both at the same time would make you a little playerette though.
Being a player has to do with your actions, not your desires. Unless you're dating them both at once or something along those lines, then no you're not.
What Girls Said 5
No, but leading them both on does.
There is a difference between liking and acting. If someone is leading more than one person on at a time then I would consider him or her to be playing games. Not technically a player since they are not in official relationships but it isn't right either.
LMAO no a player is like cheating basically... Or it can be flirting with two dudes at once (holding hands and etc.) You probably get the gist by now.
Only if you're dating both and they both don't know about it.
Nah. If you were dating one and... screwing both... well...
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