Does liking two people at once make you a player?

Question says it all, but does liking two people at once (when you aren't dating them) make you a player?

  • Yes
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  • No
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Not at all. Playing with both at the same time, makes you a player. Choose one, don't play with the emotions of both.
    As tempting as being a player sounds, it's not as good as it looks.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • oh no not at all. u aren't actually acting upon your feelings or making commitments so there's no issue. you've just caught feelings for 2 guys. it'll pass over eventually.

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What Guys Said 12

  • It's only considered a "player" when you're actually involved with those two people, simply crushing on them is innocent.

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  • No. You're only a player when you're cheating one from behind.
    Eg, getting into a relationship because he wants to have sex with the girl ultimately, and then get out from it, asking a girl out making a move while you're in an exclusive monogamous dating/marriage.

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  • No, fucking two people without either of them knowing about the other would make you a player.

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  • If you keep it a secret yes if you're open and honest and you tell both of them you're seeing other people then No.

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  • No, acting on both would though

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  • it makes you indecisive lol

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  • Depends as whether you are acting on it or not.

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  • NO, not at all.
    Dating them both with them knowing about it makes someone a player

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  • Lol no XD.

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  • You savage

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  • Naw, dating both at the same time would make you a little playerette though.

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  • Being a player has to do with your actions, not your desires. Unless you're dating them both at once or something along those lines, then no you're not.

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What Girls Said 5

  • No, but leading them both on does.

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  • There is a difference between liking and acting. If someone is leading more than one person on at a time then I would consider him or her to be playing games. Not technically a player since they are not in official relationships but it isn't right either.

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  • LMAO no a player is like cheating basically... Or it can be flirting with two dudes at once (holding hands and etc.) You probably get the gist by now.

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  • Only if you're dating both and they both don't know about it.

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  • Nah. If you were dating one and... screwing both... well...

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