Say you meet a great guy you really get along with. Then you find out he has a kid. He's active in their life and tries to be a good dad. Do you stay or go?
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If I've already fallen for him, stay. I'm only 21, but I also really love all children. If you're having difficulties finding girls that will accept this, I would honestly not really bring it up until you've been on a few dates. Then talk about your kid randomly, casually, and don't act like you purposefully hid it, just that it never came up before then. If I'm not invested or if he doesn't seem perfect in every other way, I'd leave.1