So my girlfriend is pretty overweight. Which is no big deal except for her health. She had expressed to me that one of her goals was to lose enough weight to look good in lingerie. So I've been trying to motivate her. Of course she is extremely sensitive about it and I can tell every time I talk to her about it she gets really discouraged. I talked to her about maybe trying different eating habits, she hates vegetables 😐🔫 kill me now lol I talked to her about exercise she has asthma should've killed me earlier. I personally like eating healthy, but she hates most of the stuff I cook. I can tell she feels insecure when we are around women who she perceives as being prettier than her. She wants to move in with me and when we talked about it I told her that I expected to take care of herself both physically and mentally because there is no time I'm attracted to her more than when she feels good about herself. I just want her to feel confident enough to reach those goals, to not have the joint pain that she already has that is associated with carrying excess weight. I want her to make other girls jealous when she's in a swim suit you know, she's a really really beautiful woman, I just want her to see the strength and beauty of which I know she is capable. Help! I'm about to give up
Most Helpful Girl
no pain no gain!! try to encourage her to reach her goals!2
Most Helpful Guy
She hate's veggies.. Doesn't mean she can't eat them.. Not everyone like's veggies but they are willing to make the sacrifice because they want to look good and be healthy..
You do know that some olympian's have asthma right? lol no excuses
There are many things she can do to lose weight.. Pretty much any exercise that makes her sweat.. She can do those cardio exercises on mats.. or any other thing.
She's just weak as.. You gotta really talk to her properly and tell her she needs to toughen up and make the sacrifices to reach her goals or spend the rest of her life in the shadow's looking up and wishing she was like the other women. Success doesn't come without hard work and dedication.0