Hi everyone, sorry for the long post. But I am in a very difficult situation with my guy best friend.
Lets get to the point: I have very strong feelings for him. And I want to tell him/ask him out but I don't know how.
Here is our story:
we met a few months ago and instantly became friends. We would text/snapchat all the time. Over the summer we got even closer. We went to the bars a lot and most times ended with us being super flirty and touchy. Now, we still seem to text all the time and continue conversations throughout days. We do weird couple like things together; including over the summer we went to movies and baseball games. And more recently, shopping just the two of us. We drive everywhere together and everyone always asks/jokes about us being together. He's a very shy and awkward person, meaning that he gets uncomfortable in a lot of situations.
I'm not sure whether to tell him how I feel or not. I don't know if it'll ruin the friendship. If you feel I should tell him, how should I do it? Over texting or in person? Keeping in mind how shy of a person he is. I don't want to ruin what we have, but I can't keep this secret anymore. It's taking up all of my mental energy.
Most Helpful Guy
it's basically a risk reward situation.
is the reward of being his girlfriend worth the risk of potentially making the friendship awkward
my personal opinion is that he probably likes you to some extent. even if you tell him that you've started to develop feelings it certainly doesn't mean that the friendship is doomed
I personally believe you should tell people how you feel1
Most Helpful Girl
text him ! Or a simple sheet of paper that says: I LIKE LIKE LIKE LIKE YOU! Do you like me? Yes!!! or no! and that way he isn't freakin out because its in writing... lol i mean thats what I would do!0