I always find when I have a new crush I tend to obsess about them and overthink EVERYTHING! For example I started talking to a guy online who I'm really digging but I always blow things out of proportion by thinking he doesn't like me because he only messages me a couple times a day and they're quite impersonal but deep down I know I'm being irrational.
Most Helpful Guy
Get a life, and I mean that in a good way.
If you have time to obsess and overthink over how often something does or doesn't message you, then you have too much time on your hands. Find a new hobby, watch a show, pick up a new book, go out with friends. It doesn't matter just keep busy.0
Most Helpful Girl
The only way is if you start doing things that you want do so that your crush is secondary.0