Long story short: I introduced myself to this cool guy at my college. He doesn't seem to have many girls after him.. His Facebook is pretty vacant of girls in a romantic way, and my friend thinks he's nerdy. But I don't.. I consider myself quite attractive and I have been on plenty of dates so I act... Kinda right away if I see a guy I'm interested in. So.. This guy was very friendly and asked me to coffee when I said hi to him. But it's been 2 weeks, and so far it's been very odd. We don't see each other hardly ever unless we get lucky to cross paths. So I tried messaging him a few times on fb but he was out of state on a vacation.. And the other time he never responded at all. But then he randomly, a few days later, shoots me a message saying we should have coffee again soon. This guy has a few female friends and is social.. But he doesn't get girls (I don't think) based on my stalking abilities lol. I can't tell if he doesn't know how to go about this or if he's just not ready for any of this right now and isn't interested.
Guys, how can you tell the difference between a shy guy giving mixed signals vs a guy who just isn't that interested?
What Guys Said 2
He's probably interested0
I like to say if you like something you come back for more ;) but i suggest you set up a non friendzone wall so you dont end up like the other girls lol0
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