So I'm in a bit of a predicament where I've got two guys interested in me and I don't know what to do because I've never been in this situation before and hadn't ever really thought I would be because I don't ever flirt with more than one guy at a time. So there was one guy I met on work experience that I really liked and I pursued him for a while but he said he didn't want to date long distance (it would be about an hour on public transport to see him) and that was over and a friend set me up with another guy and we've been talking online for a while and I'm going to meet him this weekend but the other guy just asked me if I wanted to date him and I've postponed my answer but I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt anyone. How does anyone else deal with this?
Most Helpful Guy
Someone is going to get hurt no matter what you do, but in times like this i say follow your heart/gut. Who does your gut say you should go for...0
Most Helpful Girl
Date them both. What's the harm? But just know with this, in the end you will have to make a decision. I think you should get to know both of them, considering the fact that you are dating and NOT in a committed relationship. Find out which one you get along with better.1
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