So I'm 20 and going through a weird phase. Background;I have never been in a relationship before because I never felt the need to be in one. I also wasn't around a lot of guys really so opportunity was limited. Of course I did have a few crushes here and there and that would eventually die off.
Right now I seem to be going through an odd situation. there's a guy in my class who I think is starting to like me. Maybe it's all in my head and I'm overanalysing but he is showing the typical signs ;lingering around where I am, constantly staring , locking eyes with me, making sure he is where I am etc.
I started liking him a few months ago , this was solely based on physical attraction because we don't speak so I don't know his personality.
The thing is I can't tell if I like him , LIKE him or just like him because I feel like I *have* to like him.(I hope that makes sense). At 20 I do feel behind on relationships & I can't get that *I should've had my first relationship by now* thought out of my mind. At first I undoubtedly thought I liked him but now im not so sure. I know you can find somebody attractive and not like them (want to know them better, eventually want a relationship with them). Im wondering if that is the case here? Lately he looks scruffy, will wear the same outfit for about 3 days and misses quite a few classes. I don't know if he is going through a tough time. What initially attracted me to him was the pride he took in his appearance (his looks basically as shallow as that sounds. As I have said , I don't speak to him therefore cannot comment on his personality. We have never spoken despite being in the same class.
Now I just don't know what im feeling tbh or even what to do. I feel like we'll be playing this eyeing game for the next 6+ months.
Thoughts/Advice all welcome!!:)
PS there maybe a few typos, I was in a hurry.
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Maybe you should continue play the eyeing game and hope that someday he will come and be a boss talking to you.0