My head is disorganized, i am stuck in a house with my oh so annoying depressed mother and a crazy depressed mentally insane ''sister''. I am 23 and i should have moved out a long time ago but because i had debts and stuff i decided to pay them off first, i regret that now because money is not worth life experience, i should have moved in a dungeon for all i care, because now i am ANGRY at myself for sabotaging my happines. I am ANGRY for letting it happen, i hate my life because i have no sense of direction, i hate myself for being indecisve, i hate myself for not loving my life earlier, for not thiking im worthy enough, i hate that i wasted 3 years out of school doing nothing, i HATE that i have no family to back me up, I HATE my life, i hate it, i hate they way my life turned out, im 23 for gods sake and only 7 months untill i turn 24, i m searching for a house but its going slow. PLease cheer me up.
Most Helpful Guy
Are you mentally handicapped or in some way incapable of doing something? If you are not, you can change your life. Life is not a sprint; it's a marathon. You need to write down what you want to do in life. What is your career? More importantly, financial independence is the path to life experience. If you have life experience with a lot of debt, you will never be happy. In order to become successful, it takes sacrifice and hard work. You must believe in yourself because I believe in you. You haven't tapped into your potential because you are your biggest obstacle. You think you can't do it but I know that you can. Stop making bullshit excuses. You are the strong one in your household; be the stability. This is a test to your mental endurance and strength. You can do it.0
Most Helpful Girl
Start stashing money away into a separate bank account that is your freedom money. As soon as you have enough for the deposit and first months rent you will feel you have more control of your situation and that alone will help while you look for a place.
Cut any unnecessary spending for the time being you should be able to save up for something pretty fast. I think I saw a post from you a month ago and I agree this is t a healthy environment. Living with depressed people makes you depressed especially if the relationship was kind of rocky to begin with. Just know your current situation is temporary and come up with an exit plan.0