She used to do some things that used to depress me emotionally. So eventually I had to move on. But in the process of moving on I made her feel the same way I felt when she did those things. I felt joy & peace at first but now I'm feeling bad for her. She deserves it, that's for sure, no doubt. So how do I make this guilt trip go away?
Most Helpful Girl
Vengeance is not the answer to inner turmoil. It only validates what they did to you, if anything. If you know that it's wrong, and you do it too, you're basically just saying it was completely okay and warranted, since you took it upon yourself to behave the same. Now, you are just as bad as she was.
The best revenge you can get on someone is being the better person. Proving that what they did to you was wrong and that they should regret it by being better, happy, and moving on. Not by stooping down to their shitty, asshole-ish level.0
Most Helpful Guy
Just focus on stuff you like doing and eventually it should pass off from your mind in time.0