""HOW IN HELL CAN PEOPLE EVEN CHEAT? I can't even get a high five from a guy or get one guy to kiss me let alone two xD""
Yes, finding a second alternative is indeed the most difficult element to get cheating done. It's already difficult to find ONE suitable partner (who might apparently seem perfect in every way except their lack of inclination to be physically connected with you as well); obviously it's equally difficult to find a SECOND one. Especially if you're still torn about whether you should stay or find someone else.
Lucky bastards having all those options at their disposal, hah. I know a cheater, I used to say what a terrible thing to do that was, but then I heard their side of the story and it makes perfect sense what they did and why.
I didn't do it, but I can understand why. My saying is, "it's you responsibility to be faithful to you SO, but it's your SO's responsibility to give you a reason to." Logically, if you looking outside, something must be going wrong inside.
You will find that when you with someone, you all of a sudden get likes from other people. Be single and there is nothing. Be with someone and all of a sudden Cupid starts actually aiming right at the people around you. Fucked up.
I wouldn't think of it. When I tell someone that I love them, I sign a verbal contact that I will be loyal to you and only you. I know how it feels to be cheated on so I wouldn't make someone feel that way
I've cheated. It was because my girlfriend lived in the city and I couldn't see her very often and I tried everything to give us the opportunity to have sexual experiences but she doesn't like to send pics and she doesn't like doing stuff over Skype that much and I don't like making her do stuff she doesn't want. But even when we are together in a room alone we don't really do that much.
I love her, but I went from having sex all the time to someone who hasn't even had his dick sucked on the past 4 months. So I started getting numbers and getting my dick sucked from girls on the side. Am an asshole? I'm not really sure. I just can't psychologically handle it anymore but what made me cheat was the lack of sex.
I wish I didn't feel llike I had to do it. I wish she would put out more, but I also wish I could just control my urges better. I love her and she would never do this to me but I don't know what else to do.
Only been in one serious relationship and I never cheated on him. I find cheating disgusting and it's hard to imagine any decent person doing something like that. I could never forgive myself if I cheated on someone, probably would forbid myself from getting in any relationships in the future cause I'd feel like I don't deserve a man. Also, my ex cheated on me, so I am VERY aware of how much it hurts to be betrayed by the person you trust the most. It really saddens me that cheating is such a common thing. :/
I have cheated. It was easy. No, i did not regret it. Nope, i did not think twice before I decided to do it.
Motivation: bc i was bored with my now ex boyfriend (thank god)
Actually thinking about it again i wasn't actually cheating cause fro my side we were already broken up but not from his side. He still wants to be with me and i dont. Told him at least 3 times i wanted a break up but everytime i do that he grabs a knive and threatened to kill himself. So I don't know. Does that count as cheating?
I've made out with someone while in a relationship. I wanted to fuck him, but decided making out was as far as I wanted to go with him. It felt great to during the act, but later I felt bad. I had known it was the end of my relationship. The guy I was with was sweet and caring, but a dead beat that los my interest months prior. It was probably the best mistake I've made. I have no desires for anyone except for the man I am with now. I will not be cheating on him.