Has it ever happened to you?
My ex boyfriend. He got in a lift with me, the first time I ever saw/met him (we met at work) and it was like fireworks went off inside me. We dated for 8 months, biggest regret of my life. I'm going to ignore that feeling if I ever get it again.
Thankyou and sorry about that. Did you ask him out in the life or hint to him or did he ask you out? How did things progress from the lift?
We flirted a lot for a few weeks. He hinted at asking me out but never seemed to have to balls to do it. So I asked him out. He was going to be working away for a month so I told him I wanted to go out with him before he went away. We had that crackle of energy between us, always. Like I can't explain it unless you've ever experienced it. It was like my insides were touched by electricity the whole time I was near him. We went on a date, you can guess what happened on said date. I went back to his, we talked every day while he was away by text. I always felt the electric. Even when he dumped me in May and tore my heart out. He was emotionally manipulative, he wasn't a nice guy but the chemistry, the crackle we had was always there. It just floored me the moment I laid eyes on him, I just wanted to touch him every time I saw him. Biggest regret of my life but there you go :) sorry it's so long!
That's cool !! But what happened the first time you saw him in the lift? Like what happened at that particular point that lead to flirting for few weeks. That's what I am curious about ;)
Oh. We didn't have sex or anything in the lift. It was just a feeling. He looked at me and I looked at him and he spoke to me and I probably couldn't get my words out - as always with him. I think it was just a mural, BAM, attraction. Or maybe he just realised I was easy prey. I don't know.
haha.. I know you didn't have sex in the lift !! I hope you were kidding ;) So when you spoke in the lift for the first time, did he ask for your number or did you ask him?
No neither of us did. We worked in the same building, company, just under different departments. He would come into my department all the time and get into my space pretending to do something. We'd stand real close to each other, prod each other, make fun of each other. It took about a month before I asked him out in the end becaus I was sick of waiting. He didn't think I would say yes. He's 12 years older than me so that's why.
Interesting !! I want to honestly ask you a question. If he asked for your number, soon after the first time you saw him in the lift and had a quick conversation ; would you have given it or not , even though you were attracted to him first?
I would have given it to him. I wanted him to ask, I don't like having to ask someone myself.
Thanks !! But why do you think some girls are eager to approach a random guy and talk and have conversation. But when the conversation progresses a bit and the guy asks for their number, they give an excuse to NOT give their number?Have you done something like that ever?
Oh I think that's because some girls don't want to appear easy. Or their just flirting to massage their ego or something and aren't really that interested. I only flirt with people I like and am interested in, or used to anyway.
If they don't want to appear easy and they don't give their number, how would the guy ever get in contact with the girl, if the girl likes him? As they are both random, chances of ever meeting again without contact is all about luck !!
I've no idea. Probably the latter then, some girls just don't like giving out their number.
Do you have a habit of touching random guys , even if you are not attracted to them?
No, I'm funny about people touching me uninvited so I don't touch others, not until I'm in a relationship or dating them. That's just me though
cool !! Do you think your friends touch random guys?
Probably. I've seen people flirt with people by touching them before
Do you think it's just a habit or they are attracted to the stranger?
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No, never has to me anyway.
Thankyou. How long does it take for you to feel a sexual attraction towards a random dude?
I'd have to get to know them first.
So a random guy being " Hot " is not enough.. Right?
Yeah tbh it's personality I'm more attracted to than looks.
cool !! Thankyou :)
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