Okay so let's by starting to say I am a junior in High School who is 16 years old and one of the guys is a senior and the other is a junior. Well the senior is my best friend's older brother and she is completely okay with it and even is she trying to trying hook us up and the junior is a guy that I knew from middle school in 7th grade. I am not DATING either of these two and the only one where interest in each other has been clear is with the junior but I feel like things are moving fairly slow compared to the senior where feelings are little bit more ambitious. I think we both know we like each other but we just don't know how to say it because we both keep to ourselves. So Friday night me and my best friend went to hang out with his friends and let's just say things got very physical lol and boxing started happening and I noticed senior was very touchy with me and wanted to keep me close like he wanted to touch me and stuff... I ended up letting him touch my bum which is funny because he is the first guy I have let touch my ass and then he later messaged me asking why did I let him do it as if he wanted to do it again O. O so now I kind of feel bad with junior because I guess I steer away from things like that with him. Like should I have let him touch my butt? Should I be more physical with junior? I mean how does this talking thing work out? I don't want to just get with one and be like "haha ha chose this guy so you are out?". My best friend said "First come, first serve" so the first one to actually go for it gets me first? I mean does that sound right? I mean I feel like that but is that wrong? I have been a bit scandalous I can say because I know neither of them know that I'm kind of "talking" to another guy besides they are both on the basketball team so I try not to be around one guy if the other one is around. I need to know how this talking thing is suppose to work? And what do I tell them if they even decide to ask?
- Stop talking to both of themVote A
- Go for seniorVote B
- Go for juniorVote C
- Keep talking to both of them and see how it plays outVote D