So I'm 21, in college, and I recently lost like 20 pounds and a bunch of acne and I just got really attractive (what can I say?) ... And as a consequence I have 25-30 guys asking me out and talking to me right now. I'm not exaggerating either. It's at least that many... Not only is it hard to talk to them each day.. But they're asking me out and it's heard to plan when all these guys want to plan things with me... It's hard to focus on my school (I go to a rigorous school too) and I work part time... How do I find balance? I'm not used to this many guys... And I am interested in like 20 of them... Like I can't choose. I feel partially guilty yet not really... Should I? It's like making me flustered because I'm not used to so much attention and I don't want to mess up.
Anyone have life experience with this?
There's only one dude that I am genuinely interested in though... Is it bad to still talk to the others just kuz?
You should choose the guy that holds a meaningful conversation with you. Simple say, go out with the guy who built most rapport with you. Also, see whether he's a general happy guy or not. You don't want to go out with someone who has no positive outlooks in his life. That's sad
It is bad to talk to all the others "just kuz" and then complain about not having balance. If you like only one guy, why even bother with pretenses for the others? Keep the ones you want as friends, but who needs so many guys?