if we lived in america, this would not be an issue... but we live in israel! she works at a store near my house and we always flirt with each other. she's really pretty and i'd like to take her out but she is arab. what should i do?
I don't know, I'm not gonna lie it's kind of a hard situation, mainly because I know how Middle Eastern families are (regardless of religion), would your family be ok with you being in a non Kosher relationship, would her family be Ok with her being in a non Halal relationship? That's where it might cause problems :/ If you lived abroad it would be less of an issue I agree, my friend is Moroccan Jew and she's dating a Tunisian Muslim but we live in France.
There are tons of beautiful amazing Israeli girls. Why her?
Damn, I can certainly appreciate the difficulty of your situation. I don't think social backlash is the issue here. I think its gonna be from both your families, who probably have some... old fashion views on this.