I am so desparate for a boyfriend but my parents won't allow me becuase they think I'm too young. I'm 16 presently and I will be 17 in one month. The guys I like never seem to like me. I don't know if they would but they never make a move. I am not stuffed up. A guy should not be afraid to apporach me. I get jealous but not in a bad way when I see other younger couples than me holding hands and kissing. I crave for that connection. I usually say to myself, " When am I going to get a boyfriend?". My parents hold me back all the time.
Most Helpful Guy
You've romanticized the relationship based on what the media/peers have presented to you.
I've never been in a relationship myself, but I can say that although it is a glamorous "teenage dream", it's not the most important thing right now for you.
Just hold on and calm down. Cause if guys realize that you are, "... desperate for a boyfriend...", they will either flock to you (for the wrong reasons) and be repelled by you. It's weird, I know. But just hold off for a while and focus on your school work. I remember hormones, they sucked, but it will pass eventually.
Besides, when your eighteen, you can do whatever you want... sort of.0
Most Helpful Girl
1) Never be be desperate for a man.
2) Never let others tell you what you can and cannot do in life.
3) You are not ready for a relationship. What you described is a very shallow understanding of what it means to be in a relationship and what it provides to you and the other person. Your view is very typical for your age and (hopefully) will evolve with time. But until it does, you're not ready to be in one. Enjoy this time figuring yourself out for your cannot be an asset in a relationship unless you know yourself, your needs, and your limits.1