there is this guy who has been pursuing me for more than a year. I was never interested in him because he was too desperate. long story short I ran into him at my cousins place two 6 months back and we started getting close. 2 months ago he was calling me every night and he would talk about our future together and marraige and stuff. We are both from the same place but i am yet to complete my studies in another state. 2 weeks back i went home and we hung out the whole week and when i had to leave, he said he's gonna miss me so much and that he would come and meet and how he wished i stayed longer. 2 days later, he stopped calling me. I casually asked him why and he replied that he was going through a lot of problems at his work place and home and he doesn't wanna talk to anyone. I left it at that. After a week he put up a picture in whatsapp of him and a girl. It got to my nerves and i asked him who that girl was and if she was his girlfriend or sumthing. I know it sounded needy but he just made everything we had feel so cheap. he answered that she is his friend. Like seriously, he was going through a lot he couldnt text or call but he could put up pics of him and a girl. that was it for me. he hasn't tried contacting me since then and itts been 3 days since i asked him that and im just so angry and i feel abandoned like what i feel means nothing to him. i dont wanna talk to him but the fact that he hasn't called makes me angrier. How can someone so close distant himself so much in such a short span of time. Im so confused.
Most Helpful Guy
Weren't you sorta holding out on him? Your relationship?1
Most Helpful Girl
You had set with him didn't you? He got what he wanted. He had -and has a girlfriend, you never had anything real. But the moment there is a shift in energy with his girl, he'll hit you up again, and you need to tell him to kick rocks!0