I've been dating this guy with a 7 month old baby boy. He is there for me whenever i need him he treats me right and the sex is awesome the only problem is the mother of is child hates me and always start mess with me. She is in the way and his son is so young that i dont know if he will get back with her and try to make his family work i just would like to know will it be worth it to stay with the only man that makes me happy and see what this can turn into and just hope for the best or just let him be?
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Tbh I'm going through the same situation right now. It totally depends on how serious he is about you. Do you see yourself raising his child and possibly getting married at some point? If not I'd say it might not be worth it. There's so much extra stress that will come with pursuing this relationship. A baby is a big responsibility but if you feel that you want to make this work you need to "mark your territory" in other words and let his baby moms know that you're there to stay no matter what. I'm sure part of her issue would be having seeing another woman raise her child so at some point you'll have to sit with her and at least come to some sort of an agreement to be civil with one another for the sake of that child.0