So say you two have been talking for a few weeks or months.
And when I say he's straight forward, I don't mean in a creepy pervy way where he hits on you. I mean, he comes up and says, "Hey, I really like talking to you and find you very attractive. Do you wanna give us a shot?" Maybe not those exact words, but in that kind of fashion. Then after he lays out what he wants, THEN he'll start flirting with you. OR would you rather him flirt with you and play games first before he asks you out and tells you that he likes you?
I want him to be straight forward.
I want him to flirt first for a little bit.
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
I much prefer straight forward guys. I don't like not knowing what he wants from me. Although flirting is nice I always find myself expecting a more romantic relationship and later on he'll tell me he just wants a casual thing. Flirt for a few days then make your intentions clear I think.
The flirting is the fun part - I just love anticipation!
This guy and I (who used to work together for a year) have been flirting subtly, on and off, for the last 4 years. We went out for drinks last night and we finally talked about what we wanted (basically saying that we do actually like each other, and are open to seeing where things might lead). We didn't even end up kissing, but he was running his hand up and down the inside of my thigh. It felt so good - and that was almost certainly because of the flirting and anticipation.
I wouldn't recommend waiting 4 years though! lol - it's just the way our circumstances have played out.
Yes please!!! I cannot bear all the mucking about when it comes to dating. I repsect guys so much more when they're honest about what they want (even if it isn't the same as what I want). At least you know where you stand with them.
I've never been pursued by a guy who is straight forward like that. It's frustrating. I wish guys were all more up front. Heck, I wish all people were more up front. But I know I get nervous and don't say anything sometimes.
Flirting is really fun but it can also be confusing so I prefer guys who are straight forward 100%. It's a relief honestly and takes some stress out of it all. A little flirting doesn't hurt at all though ;)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Home > Dating > Girls, Do you like a guy who's straight forward and tells you exactly what he wants from the start? or do you want him to flirt for a bit?