I'm attractive, smart, funny and always trying to make people happy - not to sound conceited. Every now and then I meet a guy but he never takes things ahead - it seems like they don't think I'm girlfriend material. These last few years I've met 2 guys online, we deeply fell in love with each other but they always told me they couldn't date me because of distance. It breaks my heart because all I want is a boyfriend for me to cherish and love. What is wrong with me? 😿
It could be that those people online can obviously see how serious the relationship will be. Another thing could be that they were only trying to get in your pants, boost their ego, don't want to be in a too serious relationship from the start, etc. Maybe guys are worried that you expect too much because you want to have someone that you can really love. I don't know if any of this is true, but it could be that you come off as intense when it comes to love. Buuuut I hope you find out and find the love you're looking for. Good luck :)
You fell in love with guys you met online and they never dated you. That is not mature love; that is puppy love or wanting to be in love or being in love with the idea of being in love. There's one huge problem.
You didn't post a picture so no one can comment on your appearance. I have known women who were reasonably attractive but dressed either childishly or like an older woman or they had some crazy hair style.
Maybe you are so eager to be in a relationship that you appear to be desperate and clingy.
This is a little bit to get you started thinking. Remember, the way you perceive yourself is not the same as the way other people perceive you.
Well, they said it: distance. Personally, I don't understand online, long distance relationships. It's just not feasible. I'm not saying you can't meet someone and make a connection, but unless you or they are willing to uproot and relocate, it's a fool's errand.
Nothing is wrong except that you are still a traditional girl, waiting for the guy to come and make an offer on you... Most guys aren't into that tradition any longer! You have to go out, join clubs for people with your interests, and even ask the guy out for coffee once in a while...
All you need is to break out of the traditional mold here!
Nothing, I like smart attractive and humorous girls, so as far as concerned with me, everything's fine wid u,... Also many women are going through the same phase as you, while many men I don't know, are going through same phase as me.. I too want a partner who understands me, but I'm patiently searching!! So, its not a big deal for me.. But if you re impatient and desperate then you should try and approach guys! All the best!! Hope this helps!!!
What's wrong with you is that you're waiting for guys to take initiative to approach you while you're probably doing nothing to make yourself stand out from all the other 'attractive, smart, funny', and overall sociable girls out there. Try actually doing something to get a guy's attention like say, approaching him. Striking up conversation.
Same sentiment!! But in my part, guys choose to be friends with me because I unintentionally put them in the "friend zone" I am like one of the boys and they see me as their sister, which is kinda sad for me :(