I recently, broke up with my boyfriend but I agreed to still be friends with him. This sounds good because we don't hate each other but the problem is I think he's trying to get me back I caught him spying on me twice, he still talks to me non-stop trying to grab my attention, flirt, follows me around, and is frankly getting quite annoying! I need some advice. Girls, Guys have any insight? Thanks in advance!
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Well, since you did the breaking up AND you are still giving him attention, the guy still thinks in his heart of hearts that it means he has a chance, no matter how small it may be. You have to cut him a little slack since he obviously cared about you.
On the same note, if you are feeling uncomfortable just tell him that if he keeps it up he will have to choose whether he wants to be your friend or nothing at all. There is a fine line between trying to win back a heart and stalking someone. You have to set the boundaries AND make him aware of where those boundaries are. You can't expect him to know what is annoying to you beyond the obvious.
If it continues or gets worse, you may have to ask someone for help. Maybe a mutual friend, a teacher or someone if you are in school, or even some kind of authority if it goes that far. I would guess it will get better with time, especially if you just broke up. Just talk to him and be observant of the situation.0