I'm just gonna be honest. I am a 24 year old virgin. I have a bachelors degree in business and have a great career ahead of me. I live very frugal. My immediate goals are to pay down my car note and student loan debt in the next 4 years. Girls I have talked to in the past have ended up breaking my heart. They would tell me that I was too perfect and end up saying that they were not good enough for me. I don't get it. Why do good guys finish last? I sometimes wish a girl would knock on my door and tell me she loved me. Please give me some advice.
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When girls say your to good for me it's a lie. Basically they lost interest in you. Best way to fix this is make sure you look after yourself first and make yourself happy instead of giving everything to the woman to early. Be nice be kind be loyal but only invest so much of you heart and effort in at a time otherwise you end up getting hurt and scaring people off. I always try to give 60% of the relationship. (I give sixty they give 40) that way I'm always trying to give a bit more then I get but I'm not the one putting in all the effort.
Loving and being kind is great but you have to look after yourself to or you end up hurt1