I made spaghetti for my girlfriend this evening for dinner. She told me that it taste like shit and she took all the spaghetti and threw it in the yard and told me to that I did a crappy job. I worked pretty hard on this and I bought her her favorite wine to As well as made asparagus which she really likes as well.
should I apologize or is it reasonable for me to be mad about this?
Well, that's rude as all shit. Please, for your own dignity don't apologise and have a talk with her. That's not appropriate behaviour at all! The fact that you're even considering you could be in the wrong shows you how toxic that relationship is. Hell no that's a massive red flag, she'd be on probation if I was in your position. One wrong move and she's gooneeee.
There is being honest with someone, and then there is disrespecting someone. She just disrespected you and did it with style. The fact you're questioning whose right and wrong in this situation speaks of how poisonous your relationship is...
I think it's reasonable to be mad. I mean, maybe you didn't do a great job but you did try! That's what matters and I think she didn't have a good attitude towards this, even a little childish. She could have just told you it wasn't good and laughed it off but she had to make a big deal out of it and I found that unnecessary. So, yes, I think it's okay to be upset about what she did.
Dude I wouldn't you put so much work into a meal that she threw in the yard. She could of politely at it and then later gave some pointers for next time. She sounds like she was being a bitch to be honest.
Sorry to hear about all that hard work gone to waste. You should of thrown her wine out there for her too. I would have. 😐😂
I usually would never say these things to people online but seriously dump her ! She sounds like a spoiled little cow who clearly wasn't thought any manners. I don't know why you would even feel the need to apologise?
She sounds like a real jerk! I'd tell her that it was really hurtful and demeaning to throw a temper tantrum like that.
Pfffft that is SOOOO immature. I get it if she doesn't like it, but she didn't have to be a bitch and insult you. And dump it in the yard? Jesus Christ, what is her deal? I day dump her ass. That behavior is a huge red flag.