We will get into the whole discussion of what one another is looking for and I find many girls will say oh im just looking for friends or to meet people. Is this code for something? I'm fine with finding a few female friends, nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I think they just aren't going to say, they're looking to date. I think if the right guy came around she would date him.
Plain and simple: you're a strange online. Chances are, you could be a creep, send us dick pics, or you may not even be real. Also, there's the whole issue of not wanting to meet someone online: once again due to the epidemic of creeps and because it's a serious commitment with a lot of risks. I personally don't ever date people online even though I get approached for these reasons. Also, if it's not a dating site it's totally not abnormal for them to not be looking.
no i dont think thats it. i think you should take her at face value., iff she changes her mind shell let you know. but assuming she's hiding here true intentions for whatever reason is another form of no means yes. you should stop. respect her voice. if she isn't honest with you thats her problerm, not yours. go by what she says, dont read into it.
@ Yeah my thinking is the girl wants to avoid being too obvious for the fear of looking desperate.
It's not code for something, it literally means they're just looking for friends. Like when I meet someone I make it pretty clear that I'd just like to be friends and I'm not looking for a romantic relationship (yet), but some of those guys will end up asking you out anyways and then never speak to you again when you decline. Hopefully you're not one of those.
Personally, I say that because I don't know those boys and they could be fake or already in a relationship. I don't trust them with my heart. It's not a code for anything, they're using their brains to protect them.