Hi I dated this guy for a month. He was charming and friendly. Everything seemed to be going well we made plans to see each other the last time we saw each other. The last time we met he was going to meet up with a friend which I've recently found out was his ex. They have now got back together. Instead of ending things outright he played games as if wanting to keep me in the background just incase even saying he needed time to himself but still wanted to speak to me. In the end after some pushing he sent a message full of excuses ending things. The thing that I find the worst part for both myself and his girlfriend is that on the last day we saw each other he had sex with me and then went to get back with her. Do men really think this is acceptable? I understand I meant nothing to him but honestly how can he be sleeping with me right before he goes to get the girl he loves back? I know how I would feel if I was her. But maybe I'm naive? What do other girls think?
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He clearly doesn't respect either of you. But you have to find a way to let that go, and understand that people don't always meet your expectations, or behave in a way you think is acceptable. Dwelling on it will only cause you problems, not him.0