So i need some help as to what my girlfriend actually meant. Ok so this Saturday i was suppose to take her out to dinner but my friends are getting together and just going to chill on Saturday. Now i told my girlfriend i wanted to chill with my friends then she said "well you only see me 2 times a week though", then i told her how about next week then she was like "it's ok, fine then". So is that actually a NO or a yes? What does this really mean lol?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeeeah... so basically she's not as important to you as your friends. Cool story, bro.
It doesn't matter if it was a yes or a no (it was a no) because if you change your mind and say you'll see her then she'll know it was a pity toss on your part and then she REALLY won't want to see you.
So you done fucked up but can't go back now :p
So before her yes was a no and now her no is a yes and a screw you. :p
She originally wanted you to hang out with her. But you made the choice to hang out with your friends and so she said it was okay but it wasn't but now if you backtrack and hang out with her instead you're just going to piss her off even more.
For future reference: NEVER CANCEL PLANS WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND UNLESS YOU'RE LITERALLY DYING. :P1
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Most Helpful Guy
Ok, yeah she's pissed... and worse now she ain't gonna want to go out with you now cause you already screwed the pooch. So here's how you deal with it. Cancel with your friends ASAP and unless you break up with her do not go out with your friends for any reason Saturday night cause you will never live it down.
Then go back to her and say you changed your mind and already cancelled with your friends. Never ever admit that you got advice from outside cause she'll feel better faster if she thinks you just found it in your heart to change all on your own. Lastly, she's likely to resist going out Saturday with you just bear with it, she'll get over it. The worst thing you can do is let her convince you that it really is ok to go with your friends cause it's a test. Even showing the slightest interest in that idea dooms you to failure.0