So this girl I started seeing a few weeks ago that I met off tinder has 2 kids. She's very physically attractive and we have a lot in common and while I prefer her to not have kids, I'm not holding it against her.
A lot of people tell me that I shouldn't date a girl with kids but I don't mind her having kids as long as she's a good mother, doesn't expect to raise the kids as I'm only 25, and doesn't have any baby daddy drama. Fortunately or unfortunately, she has sole custody. My only problem is she works a lot and lives far away on top of raising her kids.
Now 5 years ago I definitely would have considered kids a dealbreaker but I'm more open, depending on the situation of course. It's just been unfortunate because a lot of the girls I've dated are attractive but are hard to talk to or they're nice and easy to talk to but I have no physical attraction.
What are your thoughts?
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I have a daughter of my own. I used to find it quite hard to get back into the dating world. Incase I found someone I like and they won't want to be with me because of my daughter. But then I came to realise if they want to be in my life it shouldn't matter. We are a package. And they should be very honoured that I would want to welcome them into mine and my daughters life. What I'm trying to get at here. Is look at the bigger picture. And if you like this girl and could see a future with her. You shouldn't have to question it because she has children. Whats for you won't go by you!0