If a guy only wants sex from a girl, he's not going to waste any time going for it. But they say if he doesn't want just that then he won't. So I wanna know if you truly like a girl, do you still try to sleep with her right away or do you put it off? Why?
It depends. Honestly when a guy is horny, his lower head takes over his upper and quite honestly rationality goes out the door. I'd say most people would try to build somewhat of a foundation first, if a relationship is goal. But that old saying is true, men can be dogs. One track mind. Me personally, I've just never been into sleeping around. I like having the "CONNECTION", so I always put it off until I decide weather I actually like the person or not and Pursue a relationship.
Also be aware, have you ever heard the saying "the thrill of the chase?" I've known both guys and girls who enjoy the dating game and the pursuit of sex, and then not long after sex starts getting bored and leaving. There's all matters of people out there
I wouldn't mind waiting, but I would still want sex right away if possible. I personally don't understand why we have to wait. I mean, you spread your legs for a stranger that bought you a drink and called you sexy, why do you wanna wait months for the one your have feelings for? I would want to sleep faster with a girl I have feelings for than for one I don't, cause I don't care about the latter.
Kinda true, because when I met my wife, I waited for a few months.
"If a guy only wants sex from a girl, he's not going to waste any time going for it." Are you sure about that? I feel like it's something people (mostly girls) say.
I don't see why I wouldn't go for sex right away. I think it's a matter of girls projecting and guys not being able to relay the concept to female brains effectively. In a guy's mind he's not all tied up about the idea of sex. It's a totally comfortable thing, they like it so if the situation presents it self and they feel like it then they can go for it.
If you begin from the premise that sex is this totally comfortable and mundane thing that guys don't get all twisted up about, then you should understand that want sex right away isn't really a good indicator of intent. But also, you can't just pass judgement on them like it's got nothing to do with you. The way you behave determines if they like you and actually want to spend time with you. More specifically, I'm saying don't play hard-to-get because that hurts you.